Choosing the wrong partner is the reason why most marriages
are failing at start up stage. Choosing someone for marriage is not as easy as
we think. The most mistake many people do is just getting into marriage with the
wrong person, whom they were dating for fun or pushing time, but however jump
into marriage due to temporary comfort. Marriage itself should be something you
need to plan for then choose the right partner and start working towards it.
How to choose the
right partner for Marriage
The first step to getting married is
making the decision. You need to have the need to, and understand what you need
to change within yourself.
There are many practices that make us bad partners which you
need to list down about yourself.
Get your list of brutal facts about yourself done. Don't
hide anything about yourself. Get another list of the good things about
yourself. For example If you know you very beautiful write it down "lm
Write another list of the ideal partner for you.
Write everything you expect from your partner, behaviour,
appearance, and social life.
The example below is an exame of an ideal partner board
shared by Digital Vocano
When you get your list done, it should guide you on whom to
accept amoung all those guys proposing you. Sometimes it might be complicated
to find someone with a 100 % of your list, however Getting someone along at
least 80-100% have proved to fall 8n happy and successful marriage. The goal of
a happy marriage is very simple, getting someone who gets along with you.
Some example of
marriage high likely to fail are listed below.
1)You are educated and employed but goes to a none educated
and none employed dude
2)You are an Fashion Model then Marry a Pastor
3)You are an artist then marries an engineer
The example of the above marriage tends to fail because
those partners will have less time with each other. Their mode of work is
parallel to each other, though people in these classes are found dating most of
the times. Be warned, let it just end in dating not marriage.